Hey Steven, I think timing is important, especially with kids involved. You seem really happy within this union except for sexual connections. For most people it was business as usual withbyour children that will be more challenging. Having children is a huge change and I'm not sure I was ready for it. You deserve to be happy. Those that mind, don't matter. I love and respect her, and it was important to me to tell her.
Do it quick, stick to the facts, do not backpedal or go backwards or anything else. Did you think about men during sex, instead of focusing on her? Deepika Padukone just wore pink and red together! Not every mask, not every closet is just a place where we hide our sexual identity.
This is a natural reaction to a situation no one would choose to experience. I think he was afraid I'd leave him, but he knew it was something I needed to do. I believe the following will be helpful to anyone wishing to know more about the process of coming out to a straight spouse. Be realistic about your expectations for what happens next. Then I went to university and there was a massive gay population, but it freaked the life out of me.
You've been patient and caring towards others and been accepting and grateful for their understanding. Another really good friend is in a very similar situation. I am glad to hear that they have been so accepting. Either way, I was in bad shape. The people I would feel the worst for are obviously my wife and 2 children. More From The Irish Examiner. Stay focused on the prize..