Make it clear you won't pressure her or make her do anything she isn't comfortable with. I've been lucky enough to have the opposite encounters with anal sex. Slowly insert the finger up to the end and make circular motions with the whole wrist, without moving the finger in and out. We all know that this is a bit of a taboo subject, and it's OK to feel a bit weird, dirty or uncomfortable doing it. External stimulation at first. Your name or email address: Don't just decide to do it and go for it.
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I feel sorry for you girls out who got hurt. I have to be able to self sooth and reduce my own anxiety by myself. Use copious amounts of lube. In fact, if your husband is down there with his fingers or a plug, just tell him to keep the bottle of lube with him!
And remind her that just like regular intercourse it gets better and more enjoyable with practice. Mostly just him touching me around the outside. I used our favorite lube Gun Oil on an anal toy with a small tip and a broad base. Super slow, super lubed and it was wonderful. Comment by cinnamonsticks on December 21, 6:
You are commenting using your WordPress. Relax, but yes it might hurt a bit. You are the one that needs to be in control. Dont even start inserting until she feels realy relaxed. He made it so that I had no reason to say no. Log in or Sign up. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here